This blog is aimed at women so they can pleasure their man. However, more men then women read this blog so you can either teach your women or have them come here and read this. We all know that the most tried and true way to please a man is through his cock in whatever form you choose which is man dependent and includes oral and genital sex and its various forms and positions as highlighted in this blog. However, as we have also highlighted there is something to be said for the tension and build up that leads up to the moment of orgasm. Pleasuring a man before he orgasm doesn’t have to be only in the form of a blowjob.

There are three main places we would like to highlight in this blog. Prolonging foreplay leads to more satisfying orgasm for both people involved and makes the sexual experience much longer and pleasurable. As the women, you want to get your man so hard so when it comes time to have sex he is extra hard which is extra pleasurable for you. The first place we would like to talk about is staying above the nipples in particular above the shoulders. Kissing is one of the places above the shoulders that often gets overlooked but is great at setting the mood. The women should start kissing, licking,and speaking softly into a mans ears. This will get any man going but needs to be done in a smooth way because too much licking will leave your eat wet but not your dick wet if you catch what we are saying. So what to do is softly go around the outside of his ears are the curve and down to the lobe and lick the lobe softly but not too much. You can also nibble on it slowly and lightly and then whisper something really filthy in his ear or if you are more into something romantic depending on the status of your relationship. Its important to give verbal feedback to each other and their is nothing wrong with asking how its making you feel. Its important to be open with one another. Don’t ignore your hands so put your hands on him rub his back or his face while you are doing this for extra stimulation. Next stop above the nipples is the neck. The neck is a place that can get your blood boiling and your erection to the max. However, don’t go just down to the neck you need to be smooth about it. Go down slowly and kiss and lick from the ear down to the neck. When at the neck kiss both necks while licking and slowly sucking. Then move your way down to their collar bone. The collar bone is an often ignored spot but it can provide great pleasure. Last but not least go down to the nipples and start licking and sucking on those. However, before doing this feel him out and see if this something your guy likes.

Another great place and although it may seem weird is a mans armpit. The armpit is filled with nerves and pheromones which are the key to getting sexually aroused. It is the pheromones that attract a women to a man so by getting more attention from the women you can get them to do more things you like. Also there will be the element of surprise that you are paying attention to this area because chances are no one has ever gone there for fear of it smelling haha. So the way to do this is by slowly start to lick where the hair beings. As the female you need to key on his feet an facial reaction to see if this is something he likes or makes him uncomfortable. Dont be shy to ask and see if this is something he likes. So continue on your way by going from the outside in right where the hair starts and go to the center of his armpit as this is the spot with the most nerve endings and where a lot of the pheromone production. Next take your fingers and slowly rub his arm down to his elbow and throw some licks in there. So this move is high risk high reward depending on the kind of guy. Everyone is different but with every change make sure to assess if they are liking it either verbally or through body language.